Anxiety antics...wow...T - whenever!

Ok, so I missed a few days...for good reason.  He came over 2 days ago.  I cooked dinner and we had an enjoyable evening.  We laughed and had playful arguments over traditional chores.  He said that he wants me to cook everyday (when we're married).  I told him that if he pays all the bills, then I'll do all the cooking  Of course, he wouldn't agree to do that.  Well, when we went to bed, he commented that I was so good that he would do all the cooking if I kept "that" up.  I agreed to that...no problem!  The next day, drama.  He got a boot on his car over old, unpaid tickets from his ex wife.  She was driving a car in his name.  Back then, he was a truck driver and was never home so he "supposedly" knew nothing about the tickets.  Ok, so now what?  He needs his car to get to his appointments and make money.  He can't use my car as the tickets also caused his license to be suspended.  The tickets total over $10K and he doesn't have that handy.  Boy, this calls for some creativity and real friendship.  If he doesn't come up with some thousands by Mon, the city will tow his car by Tues.  Hmmmm...let's see what happens.  I'm off to run the streets and continue to lead my happy life!  I got an ACN mtg this morn, then a coaching lesson, then a meditation lesson, then an art show.  It's a nonstop day and I'm a non stop girl!